Never explain yourself to anyone.
Because the person who likes you doesn't need it,
and the person who dislikes you won't believe it.
We make them cry who care for us.
We cry for those who never care for us.
And we care for those who will never cry for us.
This is the truth of life., its strange but true.
Once you realise this, its never too late to change.
Don't make promise when you are in joy.
Don't reply when you are sad.
Don't take decision when you are angry.
Think twice.., Act Wise.
copied from pravsworld.com
父母和孩子
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If you do not explain yourself to anyone, then how he/she can know what you are thinking about?
Min, how you think about this statement?
Think twice for everything, this is right.
Never too late to explain yourself to your blove.
Never regret.
How you think about this?
Just for your reference, Min.
A link to share: (I found out these part very meaningful)
http://www.geocities.com/andrewvecsey/happiness.html
What makes us happy
All parents want and do their best to make their children healthy and happy. It is about the only thing that seems to matter as far as our babies are concerned. But happiness is fleeting and it comes and goes. The harder we want it the more it alludes us. It is very easily overshadow by sadness, worry, fear, pain, hopelessness, and disappointments. Happiness is a momentary thing and we can never be happy all the time. Certain things always makes all of us happy:
being loved and appreciated (relationships- family, friends, colleagues)
getting what we want
self pride at reaching high goals or expectations
discovering or getting new things that amaze us
humor
making others happy
looking forward to things or events
We all want to be loved and appreciated. It allows us to love our self. A smile is a display of happiness and is contagious. A smile makes us attractive and it attracts people to us. Humor makes us smile and laugh. Laughter gives us a feeling of well being and satisfaction. We find humor when hidden truths are suddenly unexpectedly uncovered. Happiness is not so much having what we like, but rather appreciating and using what we have. Happiness is not so much doing things we like, but rather doing things we know and doing them well. Being thankful is acknowledging our good fortune that momentarily made us happy. Thankfulness extends and prolongs our happiness and makes the recipient of our thanks happy as well.
What can make us happy are good relationships, things we receive, events we experience, feelings we have and things and events we look forward to. As a guideline some of them are listed below in the table and later expanded on. Many things/events/feelings that might make us happy in the short term make us sad in the long term. In the same way, many things/events/feelings that might make us sad initially end up making us happy in the long term. You can rate the level of happiness of things/events/feelings by rating their usefulness.
Conclusion
The true level of happiness is determined by the situation we are in at that moment and our attitude to it. When we are in need, it is difficult to be happy but it takes very little to make us happy. When thirsty and hungry, a little water and simple meal makes us happy. When unemployed, going to a new job even in a traffic jam makes us happy. When we are homeless, any shelter makes us happy. When we are lonely, meeting a stranger gives us joy. When we are in pain, soothing of pain makes us happy. When we have more than what we need we still want more and it is easy to be unhappy and to fear losing what we have. It becomes more difficult to be pleased. In this sense, the town fool with nothing to lose might well be a happier person, in the true sense of happiness, than the town mayor.
How we measure our success determines if it makes us happy or not.
For some
At age 4 success is . . .not peeing in your pants.
At age 12 success is . . . having friends.
At age 16 success is . . . having a drivers license.
At age 20 success is . . . going all the way.
At age 35 success is . . . having money.
At age 50 success is . . . having money.
At age 60 success is . . . going all the way.
At age 70 success is . . . having a drivers license.
At age 75 success is . . . having friends.
At age 80 success is . . . not peeing in your pants.
For others
At age 4 success is . . . .not peeing in your pants.
At age 12 success is . . . having friends.
At age 16 success is . . . having a drivers license.
At age 20 success is . . . going all the way.
At age 35 success is . . ..having money.
At age 50 success is . . . having money.
At age 60 success is . . . having more money.
At age 70 success is . . . not needing money, having a driver,
At age 75 success is . . . not peeing in your pants, not needing money, having a driver, having a nurse,
At age 80 success is . . . having a diaper, not needing money, having a driver, having a nurse, going all the way to the toilet.
Min, Do you mind to give me an idea about a present that i can give to my girl and her baby? I need an opinion as on girl's side.
Thank you.
Four your reference, the girl is my ex-gf, and her baby is belong to my girl and him. New born baby, what can i buy for my girl and her baby?
Min,潇洒一点，做你想做的吧，我想我向往的生活就是可以弹弹钢琴，学学日语，做做手工，画画图，练练瑜伽，修修佛学，然后到处走走这样的日子吧。。
Do you remember this before?
敏，我能了解你的心情，我又何妨不是，我还要背起家业，哪里都不能去。你还可以
换工作啊。我们可以做什么呢？这就是生活吧！潇洒一点不是不可以，而是已经慢
慢地老了，还能说什么梦想啊！
你还记得我吗？我是Ai Ying.
Ai Ying?? 可以给我多点clue??
对不起，最近很忙啊。。现在才回复。。
Eric: 其实我想回复你好久了。可是就是无法帮您想到可以送些什么礼物而迟迟未回。。:P
sorry..最近也挺忙的。。
Is ok, anyhow thank you so much. I just after my training course. Present, i got my idea, she is an understanding angel, altot we are no more together now, but i know i will only love her. Nobody can replace her in my heart.
Thank you, Min.
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